Saturday, December 24, 2011

the begining

It has been interesting, educational, disappointing.

About a year and a half ago, while I was sleeping and my friend was pulling an all-nighter, she got bored and decided to sign us up in a matrimonial site.  The next day when she told me, I laughed, and checked it, and voila!  I had a messege.  At first I didn't take it seriously, but due to my friend's encouragement, I decided to give it a try.

The guy on the other end seemed a little too demanding.  He demanded to see my pictures right away even when I told him I wasn't comfortable at this point.  He asked me what kind of guy I wanted to marry.  Then answered himself "let me guess, someone rich..everyone says they want someone religious, but in reality as long as the guy is rich that's all they care about".  He told me he has anger management issues.  After trying to be nice for a while and putting up with his attitude, it didn't take too long for me to get him angry.  "Oh well, there goes that one!"

We blocked each other.

The week after  I come home, and hear an uncle brought a proposal.  It is a guy he knew through his friend. My mom showed me his information.  There wasn't anything there for me to like, or dislike.  So I decided to give it a try and told them to proceed further.

Later that night, as I was praying, I thought of that crazy guy I had met earlier.  How thought of how odd it was that the guy my mom was telling me about sounded a lot like him.  In fact, he sounded A LOT like him.

Wait a minute.............!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

to be continued.................


  1. Ha ha - yes it's true. There are some people who are on the official 'rishta' circuit i.e they are known to everyone and seem to pop up everywhere!!

    Not the kind you want to settle down with....

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  3. haha, I know what you mean. I have had about 4 encounters with this same guy. Until I finally just started ignoring him. lol.

  4. Four encounters?? - maybe Allah (swt) is giving you a hint ;) hahahaha

  5. haha..nope,the more encounters I had with him, the more I realized how much I didn't want someone like him.